When someone loves you in an exceptionally loving way, you can’t help but to love them in an exceptionally loving way. (Because it feels good and you want it to continue!) Even if you start out as the lover, you will end up being the beloved!
I hope You get the message. If you are in a loving relationship that makes you happy and content, then love your partner in an exceptionally loving way. Go all out. Express your gratitude for them being in your life. Thank them for loving you! (For that is what you want, to just be loved and accepted.) Your goal is to help make your partner’s life experience a happy and content one. If your partner is open to your love, you will both find nirvana,