When someone loves you in an exceptionally loving way, you can’t help but to love them in an exceptionally loving way. (Because it feels good and you want it to continue!) Even if you start out as the lover, you will end up being the beloved! I hope You get the message. If you are […]
Author: Skip Gatting
I Was Abused . . . !
Whether one is physically abused, sexually abused or emotionally abused, it kills the victim’s spirit. I was abused and subconsciously I was afraid, angry, and confused. I became my own worst enemy by destroying my relationships with others, wanting to control the situation to prevent further hurt and pain. I thought if I controlled the […]
Now Here’s An Addiction I Wish Would Spread!
If you read the article ’Negative Attitude Is A Conditioned Response’, you will understand why ‘negativity’ has become a dominate habit for many people. Negativity is showered upon us day after day, that after a while it becomes a strong conditioned response habit from the constant repetition; and there is usually no positive counter-balance. After […]
Lesson #1
We all make mistakes. No one is perfect. It is through our mistakes that we learn the most difficult lessons. Accept that you were wrong and move on. You handled it the best way that you could at the time. The secret of emotionally intelligent individuals is that they learn from the mistake and make […]
How Do You End A Relationship In A Positive Way?
Start by saying to your partner, “We need to talk. I want to share my heart with you.” Then when you are settled for a discussion, start by saying “I’m unhappy in this relationship and I’m sure you are aware of it. I want to end this relationship as amicably as possible. Can you agree […]
How Can I Be Happy & Positive When I Caught My Partner With Another Person?
Yes, you will feel devastated and hurt when you discover your loved-one was not faithful; however, you do not want to react in a negative, hostile way that would hurt someone and get yourself in trouble. Ask yourself, “How do I want to respond to this”, and recognize the relationship is ended and you want […]